“Far From Home” by Tara Wolf, Youth Pastor at King of Glory Lutheran Church
At that moment, I did not want to be there.
It was my first Christmas away from home for the holiday. True to my form, my first Christmas away was not a few hundred miles or even a few thousand miles from my family. Instead, I was across the ocean in a small city by the name of Győr, in Hungary. And at that moment, I did not want to be there.
Yet here was my school principal, standing at the door to my flat handing me a bag of decorations for my tree. “Thank you!” I replied, although in my heart I wished I didn’t have to borrow decorations from my lovely principal and her family. Instead I deeply desired to be at home, in the comfort of tradition and familiarity.
Rummaging through the bag I found a variety of ornaments and at the very bottom of the bag was a package of sparklers. I figured the bag had been used for the 4th of July as well as Christmas decorations and set them aside to return later.
A few days later, we celebrated the birth of Jesus Christ. My heart slowly turned around from a posture of selfishness to a posture of gratefulness and thankfulness. Although I could barely understand a word in Hungarian I could understand many common Christian elements of worship: the Lord’s Prayer, the Apostles’ Creed and the all-time favorite Christmas hymn, “Silent Night.”
After worship, we celebrated in a traditional Hungarian style. As we sat around the tree, Sándor (the father) called my attention to what he was about to do. I saw real candles in the tree and wondered why they were there. Sándor moved to something else that was hanging on the bottom of the tree…sparklers! With a mixture of disbelief and humor, I watched as he lit them with joy as we celebrated the birth of the Savior of the world, Jesus Christ. It was then that the memory of the bag with the ornaments came floating to my mind. “Of course!” I thought to myself, “The sparklers are for the tree!” (and not for the 4th of July, which Hungarians do not celebrate!).
Slowly another realization came to me; 2,000 years ago there was another young girl that was far from home. She did not have the traditions and familiarity of her home either. This is where our similarities end. She was in a strange town giving birth to a baby whom she had no cradle to lay Him in. She had to rely on the generosity of others to help her through this night as she brought her baby into the world.
But this was not just another baby born that night. This baby is the one who created the world that He was coming in to. This baby would one day heal the sick, raise people from the dead and show mercy to the outcasts of society. This baby would change the world, bringing about such radical transformation that the world would forever be changed. This transformation would give new life to sinners and hope for the lost. It would even have the power, through love, to change my heart from selfishness and pity to one of gratefulness and thanksgiving so many years later in a city in Hungary.
I invite you to receive the good news of this transforming power that is Christ Jesus. I pray that your heart would also be turned toward Him this Christmas season.
Bio:
DCE Tara Wolf is the Youth and Family Minister at King of Glory Lutheran Church in Williamsburg, VA. Tara is a certified Director of Christian Education having graduated from Concordia University in Irvine, CA with a Bachelor of Arts in Theological Studies with a Youth and Family Ministry concentration. She completed a two year internship in Győr, Hungary in 2003. Tara has served as the Director of Youth and Congregational Ministries at Our Savior Lutheran Church in Fishkill, NY; Director of Youth Ministries at Immanuel Lutheran Church in Palatine, IL and has been at King of Glory since 2009. Tara is blessed to be married to the love of her life and they reside in Williamsburg with their two Hungarian Vizslas.
Invitation to Worship:
Every year, we gather to celebrate the birth of Jesus on Christmas Eve with friends that we’ve known for a long time and friends that we meet that day. This year, we would like for you to be part of the celebration. Would you please join us for Christmas Eve worship at King of Glory? Visit us online: www.kogva.org
Christmas Eve: Tuesday December 24
3 and 5 PM
Traditional Carols with a Contemporary Style
Featuring a special message for Children and Families
8 and 10 PM
Traditional Service
Featuring Candles and Carols
Our site in New Kent will have a service at 6 PM*
Christmas Day: Wednesday December 25
10 AM
Traditional Service with Communion
Nativity of Our Lord
New Year’s Eve: Tuesday December 31
5 PM
Traditional Service with Communion
Special Emphasis on Confession and Forgiveness
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